3 Steps for Parents in a Desert Season

by | Aug 10, 2020 | what you can do | 2 comments

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Welcome today’s guest blogger, my friend *Tina Yeager.

Deadly viruses and economic struggles have stranded us in a wasteland which seems endless. We hike up one dune of hope for a better tomorrow only to find another sea of bleak, dry circumstances stretching ahead. This season of unrest and suffering has worn us out, especially parents in pain due to the choices and behaviors of their teen or adult children. We’re all far beyond a time of thirsting for relief. Many of us have grown too weary to hope for anything better. Is that you?

Waiting for rescue. Searching for a new start. Anticipating the end of troubles and trauma, facing plummeting resources. We can only hold onto expectations and remain motivated for so long.The past months have taken their toll and we’ve had enough of limbo. Straining to see past the next sand dune has left us with a headache and nearly sun-blinded squinting. We realize the futility of trying to see past the next sand dune or put all our hope in the latest mirage.

Making Sandcastles in the Dunes

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Because, after all, no one really lives in tomorrow. Our hope might not look the way we expected when we reach the other side of today. We live in this moment. And our life is either made or missed in the sand at our feet now.

When we’re stuck in the desert, we can perish from despair or make the dunes into sandcastles. The greatest hardships may hold opportunities. If we don’t apply our creativity and potential to the situations at our feet, we’ll miss the means to bless others. We cannot see resources or needs when we’ve dismissed our todays with complaint and put all our dreams on rescues from tomorrow. If we identify the sand as an asset, we could instead shape our circumstances into shelter for others and ourselves.

3 Helpful Steps 

Three steps help us build sandcastles in our desert. Each seems simple, but entails great creativity, intent, and effort.

  1. Identify the needs around you.
  2. Identify your resources, no matter how sand-grain common or small.
  3. Pray and think creatively about how you can build shelters for others with the sand at your feet. How could you use what you have to create relief and blessings?

These three steps take us miles from despair and guide us toward a cool place to enjoy for a moment. We might need to brainstorm with wise friends during this season when our motivation and creativity run low. For shared dreamers garner the greatest power of imagination and productivity of all. When several with mustard seed-sized faith and hope gather in prayerful support of one another, miracles grow.

Miracles in the Midst

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Sometimes the rescue of those languishing in the desert need not wait for the sand dunes to cease. God works miracles for his people through the hands of his servants. In the midst of the desert.

Exodus teaches us how God provides during our journeys through the desert, not just after we arrive in a promised land. Jesus later taught us how the Lord can take our meager supplies and multiply them to feed multitudes in the isolated places (Mark 6: 30-44).

Pray about the thirsts around you and listen for those specific needs which the Lord impresses upon your spirit. Ask God to help you identify your resources and how to apply them. Trust the Lord to multiply the blessings of your sandcastles in the desert.

 

Meet Tina Yeager: Award-winning author, inspirational speaker, and life coach, Tina hosts the Flourish-Meant podcast and publishes Inkspirations Online, a weekly devotional for writers. Check out Beautiful Warrior: Finding Victory over the Lies Formed Against You at https://www.newhopepublishers.com/shop/beautiful-warrior/ and her courses at Serious Writer Academy.

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2 Comments

  1. Christy Rhykerd

    As I become more and more aware of all that I can’t do… rescue,redeem,repair… I must shift my attention to what I can do for others… come alongside, bless and encourage. I must find hope as I reach out to others with blessings that God has prepared in advance for me to do!

    • Tom and Dena Yohe

      Oh Christy, you are so right. As you shift your attention I’m confident God will show you what you can do for others. And as you do, you will find joy. Praying for you as I send this email.

      Warmly in Christ, Dena